Published on: 7/4/2025
Why might it hurt when I have sex and what should I do about it?
Pain during sex can happen for different reasons, e.g. in the setting of prior pelvic surgery, or being new to sex. It's important to talk to a doctor if you're worried.
Explanation
Pain during sex can be caused by different things. Some people feel pain because of past medical procedures like surgery. This can happen before or after the surgery. Others might feel pain because they are having sex for the first time. It is normal to have different feelings about this, and sometimes it can hurt.
Research shows that pain during sex is something many people experience, and it can be different for everyone. If you are feeling pain, it is important to talk to a doctor. They can help you understand what may be causing the pain and what you can do about it.
What You Can Do:
- Talk to a Doctor: They can help find out why you are in pain.
- Be Open About Your Feelings: It is okay to talk about how you feel during sex.
- Seek Help If Needed: If the pain is affecting your mental health, you can visit 988lifeline.org for support.
(References)
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- Herbenick D, Schick V, Sanders SA, Reece M, & Fortenberry JD. (2015). Pain experienced during vaginal and anal intercourse with .... The journal of sexual medicine, 25648245.
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