What Is the Typical Cycle of Self Harm?

The cycle of self-harm typically begins when someone experiences intense emotions like sadness, anger, or distress. These feelings accumulate and become overwhelming. Eventually, the person may feel compelled to harm themselves as a way to manage these emotions. Self-harm may provide temporary relief from emotional pain, but this feeling is fleeting. Afterward, people often experience regret, shame, or guilt, as the physical harm doesn't address their underlying emotional distress. These intense emotions gradually build up again, perpetuating the cycle. To break this cycle, it's important to learn healthier ways to manage difficult feelings, like talking to a trusted person or practicing calming techniques. Talking to a mental health professional can help develop personalized coping strategies and address the underlying causes of self-harm.